Friday, July 11, 2008

Baby Sling/Carrier Reviews

I have so many different slings and carriers, but I still maintain that they all have (had) their uses at their times. The only one I probably won’t use again is the only one that Tak still uses (and the Tonga). He just laughs each time he sees a new one. He doesn’t understand the need for each of them. (He doesn’t carry the kids around so much. He usually goes out together with the kids and me, when we always have at least one, sometimes two, stroller with us. I often go out for quick trips with two kids and no stroller.) Anyway, I thought I would give a review of the pros and cons of all of the ones I have. I guess I’ll put them in the order that I bought them, which might make more sense for why I have the collection I do. Here is a list of the slings:
1. Nojo Baby Sling
2. Huguenot, made by Eightex
3. Tonga
4. Duccoby Dura, made by Eightex
5. Babybjorn Baby Carrier Air
6. Maya Wrap
7. Zolowear Solarveil Baby Sling
8. Kelty Wanderer Carrier (out of order, this one was Tak's choice)



This is the first one I bought before Gaku was even born. I first used it with him when he was about a month old. He also went all over Tokyo in it when my parents visited. When I bought this one, the selection of slings/carriers was not as generous as it is now.
Pros (most have to do with ring slings in general):
1. Versatility. Can carry the baby in a lot of different positions.
2. Can nurse easily in it (more true of another one I have).
3. Is very easy to adjust for someone with no experience using ring slings.
Cons:
1. The thick shoulder pad gets irritating and makes it bulkier.
2. The padding in the rails means you cannot tighten it as much, and again makes it bulkier.
3. Cannot adjust the rails and the middle like you can with other ring slings.

I loved this one with Gaku. As a small baby he would lay horizontally in it. When he got bigger we used it with him upright. But knowing what I know now about ring slings, I wouldn’t buy this one again. I couldn’t use it with Hana because as a very small baby she wanted to be upright (not horizontal) in the sling and I couldn’t tighten the top rail enough to get the head support she needed. However, this is the sling/carrier that Tak still uses with Gaku when he wants to go for a “sleepy walk”.

I bought this one because it wasn’t too expensive, and it could be used to carry the baby in a lot of different ways:
1. In front facing in
2. In front facing out
3. On your back
4. Baby bed/flat (never tried)
Pros:
1. It’s comfortable to wear.
2. It’s easy to swing the baby onto your back.
Cons:
1. Material doesn’t breathe well.
2. It’s a tricky, pain in the **** to use as a front carrier because you have to first strap the baby into the carrier, hold the baby up against you, swing the straps over your shoulders and buckle them in on the opposite side behind you.
3. It’s not easy to get the baby completely out of if they fall asleep in it.
4. When your child hits a certain weight, all of their weight sits on the top of your shoulders.

Overall, I love it for carrying the baby on my back. I used it to carry Gaku on the front, but it was a bit of a hassle, especially if I was taking him to the doctor where I had limited space to get him out and had to put him back in again after being checked. I use it with Hana now, but only on my back, usually just riding the bike to pick up Gaku from daycare. Best from around 6 months up until maybe 1½ years.


Tonga


I bought this one for its size. Basically, it was a sling that I could throw in the diaper bag when I was out with Gaku in a stroller. Then if he got fussy, I could carry him and still push the stroller.
Pros:
1. It’s so tiny it can literally fit in your back pocket.
2. It’s good to take the babies weight off your arms.
3. It’s like a hammock, so it’s cooler for carrying your baby in the summer.
Cons:
1. It’s not hands-free.
2. If you’re not extra vigilant, the baby can easily slip out of the bottom.
3. You cannot adjust the length or fit.

I used this a bit with Gaku, but found that it was hard to keep him from almost slipping out of the bottom. I have to say that I wouldn’t buy this one again (because I’ve found better alternatives).



This one is a hip carrier. I got it when Gaku was about one and I was taking him to daycare every day. He couldn’t walk home yet and I couldn’t leave my bike at the daycare.
Pros:
1. It distributes most of the weight on your hips so it doesn’t kill your back.
2. You’re carrying your child on the front, so you can still talk to them while carrying them.
3. Their legs aren’t straight down on top your legs, making it difficult to go up steps.
Cons:
1. When too big (I used with Gaku recently – at just 3 years old), their legs hang straight down, making them feel heavier and putting more strain on the middle of your back.

I got a lot of use out of this one for about a year. I liked it because it took Gaku’s weight off my back, but allowed me to still interact with him during our walks to daycare. Best from 1-2 years.
The above slings are the ones I used with Gaku. I now have three more that I added.



I didn’t buy this one with Gaku because it’s a bit expensive. But I saw one of our friends using it and it looked so easy. I have to say that I absolutely love this one and wish I had bought it with Gaku.
Pros:
1. It’s very easy to take on and off.
2. It’s even easier to get the baby in and out of.
3. It’s mesh so it breathes well (good for summer).
4. Baby can face in our out.
Cons:
1. It can’t be used as a back carrier (but I knew this when I bought it).
2. Like with most carriers, as the baby gets heavier, their weight will be more on your shoulders.

I also bought the fleece cover to go with it, which made the set fantastic for winter. If it was really cold, I could slip a couple of blankets between the carrier and the cover and Hana would be nice and toasty! Because of the cover’s design, the blankets couldn’t fall out and end up on the ground. Since I have the mesh one, I’m using it quite a bit now that it’s hot out. It has enough head support for newborns. I first used it with Hana when she was about 3 weeks old. I sometimes use this one when going out by bike also.




I bought this one because I wanted a ring sling that I could use with Hana and the Nojo one wasn’t working. I tried to buy a ring sling in a department store since I had seen some a few weeks before Hana was born, but no luck! The department stores had stopped selling ring slings because “they’re dangerous”. (They’re only dangerous if not made properly, and if the baby is not in them properly, which is true of any carrier!) I spent some time researching online and found one woman selling it in Japan.
Pros:
1. The material is really, nice and soft. Maya Wraps are made in Guatemala and the material has an ethnic feel to it, very nice colors.
2. You can adjust the rails and the middle of the sling to get a perfect fit.
3. You can carry the baby in lots of different ways.
4. There’s a pocket in the tail you can throw your wallet and keys into when making a quick run to the store.
5. It’s great for nursing in public.
6. It comes with a “how-to” DVD which is very good.
Cons:
1. There is a bit of a learning curve. The first few times you use it (or any ring sling) you won’t feel completely comfortable.
2. The material breathes nicely, but is still maybe a bit warm for summer.

When I first ordered, it I was concerned about the new design with “light padding in the shoulder”, but it’s just the way the material is stitched together. From what I can tell, it makes it a bit easier to use.


Zolowear Solarveil Baby Sling
http://zolowear.com/Default.aspx


This is another ring sling. It’s basically what I consider my replacement for the Tonga. It’s made out of a polyester mesh which dries really quickly (within 30 minutes) and allows more air flow than the Maya Wrap.
Pros:
1. It’s cool for summer. They talk about even wading in water and showering with your baby.
2. You can adjust the rails and the middle of the sling to get a perfect fit.
3. You can carry the baby in lots of different ways.
4. There’s a pocket in the tail you can throw your wallet and keys into when making a quick run to the store.
5. It comes with a “how-to” DVD which is very good.
6. It fits very easily into any bag.
Cons:
1. There is a bit of a learning curve. The first few times you use it (or any ring sling) you won’t feel completely comfortable.
2. The material isn’t as soft as I had hoped. It’s actually just a tiny bit scratchy feeling.

Because the material is not quite as soft as I had hoped, it’s not my very favorite, but I still like it and am looking forward to using it with Hana at the Rainbow Pool this weekend. (We were supposed to go today, but Hana is sick. So I sent off Tak and Gaku and am staying home with Hana.)

My two absolute favorite must-haves would have to be the Babybjorn and the Maya Wrap (Zolowear Solarveil being VERY close behind). They are both good for carrying Hana for longer periods of time. I alternate between the two. I find that using one or the other too much puts strain on different parts of my back. The Babybjorn hits the shoulders and the Maya Wrap hits the middle of my back. Having both is great! I have to say there was a day this week when I used all three of my current favorites.

Although, I do have a problem now. I have to confess to wanting more slings. Tak doesn’t understand this, but basically a sling becomes like a piece of clothing, something to match your clothing and mood of the day. Do you just have one jacket and always wear the same one? (I suppose Tak would probably have to answer yes to this question, which is why he doesn’t get the sling thing.) I would really like one of the Zolowear Silk Brocade ones. They look absolutely gorgeous, but are well beyond my price range! (At this point I have all the slings I really NEED; anything else is fulfilling WANTS.) I realize that I’ve become a sling addict… There are a couple more carriers that I would love to try (Ellaroo Woven Wrap or Moby Stretchy Wrap), but I cannot justify buying another one for any reason.

Oh! I was just walking down the hall and discovered one more carrier that I had forgotten about. This one isn’t my purchase, though. This is one that we bought in the States because Tak wanted it and thought he would use it. I think you could count on both hands the total number of times we’ve used it.

Kelty Wanderer Carrier
http://www.ruggedbear-online.com/kewaca.html


This is one of those frame backpacks for carrying kids. Tak thought it would be great for hiking and walking. But we’ve hardly used it at all. Instead, when Tak has wanted to carry Gaku on his back, he’s used the Huguenot carrier.
Pros:
1. Baby sits in a seat, so potentially more comfortable for them, although I think we had a problem with some of the straps rubbing on Gaku’s leg funny. I can’t remember for sure…
2. Has a backpack on the back so you can put all your junk in it, no need for another bag.
3. Since the baby is away from your body, it’s a lot cooler in the summer.
4. The frame stands up, so the whole thing can act as a chair for the baby in a restaurant.
Cons:
1. Heavy.
2. The baby ends up taller, so not so practical for hiking (tree branches).
3. Big, which means it’s not good on crowded trains in Tokyo.
4. I can’t get it on without a table or a chair to rest it on first. There’s some trick of resting it your knee and flipping it around onto your back, but I could never get the hang of it.
5. I also have an issue with getting the adjustments right for my height.

Amazingly Good at the Doctors


I really can't believe how good my kids are at getting their vaccination shots.

Three weeks ago, I took Gaku to get his DPT booster and Hana to get her first DPT. It worked well because I could take both of them at the same time. Also, Gaku can't go to daycare on a vaccination day because they want you to keep them quiet (yeah, right) at home and watch them for reactions.

In the week leading up to the vaccination, we were kind of psyching Gaku up for it. He was saying things like, "お兄ちゃんだもん!痛くないもん!泣かないもん!” "I'm a big boy! It doesn't hurt! I won't cry!" When we asked about Hana getting a shot, he said she shouldn't get one because she would cry. He was a bit worried for her.

So we went to the doctor. I had Hana in the Baby Bjorn front carrier. So Gaku went in and sat on the chair all by himself, let the doctor listen to his chest, and opened his mouth so nicely for the doctor to check his throat that he didn't even need the tongue depressor. Then he got his shot and didn't cry at all, not even a whimper! I was pretty proud of him.

Then it was Hana's turn. She was okay to get the shot, so I put her back in the carrier first. And can you believe it? She didn't cry either, didn't even flinch or react in any way. Today she was going for the second dose. I figured last time might have been a fluke, but again today, no tears or anything. Wow!

Saturday, June 14, 2008

Sunny Day, Sweeping the Clouds Away...

Gaku likes Sesame Street and when the weather is sunny, we almost always have to sing the Sesame Street song. The weather here today was absolutely gorgeous: 28C (82F) and sunny with a nice breeze. All the next week it's supposed to be up to about 24C (75F) and partly sunny/cloudy. I think Mom and Dad may have picked the perfect week to be here!

My parents arrived yesterday. Hana and I went to meet them at the airport. They're a bit tired and jetlagged today, but overall pretty good. Since Hana has been sick, Mom is waiting until tomorrow to hold her. (Although, she has been touching her a bit and talking to her/making her smile.)

Today a couple of my friends came over for lunch and we had a really nice afternoon. After lunch, Mom and Dad disappeared to take naps, and my friends and I talked about baby stuff (since they're both expecting their first and I have Hana).

Tomorrow, we're planning to go to Asukayama Park. It's a huge park and not far from our place. Gaku loves to go there. There's lots of play equipment, but Gaku's favorite part is easily the fountain. Tomorrow, he's going to be naked in the fountain for sure!! Lots of kids "swim" in it in the summer. But Gaku was the only kid naked in the fountain on New Year's Eve. I'm not joking. My husband and mother-in-law took him to the park, he saw the water and wanted to get in. So, he stripped off his clothes and went in the fountain. I wasn't with them since Hana was still just a few weeks old. I just shook my head and laughed when I heard.

Here's Gaku earlier this month. Tak took this with his mobile so the quality is not so good. I censored this one... Tak didn't even ask him to pose. He's such a ham for the camera. He often asks me to take his picture and then will start making funny faces and/or poses.




For good pictures of Asukayama Park:




Thursday, June 12, 2008

Getting Better... Just in Time for Mom & Dad

Well, Gaku's finally getting better. He was home today, but feeling much better. He was bored from being home and basically in the house for a whole week. The only places he's gone in the past week are the doctor's office, the hospital, and the grocery store once. In order to demonstrate his boredom and displeasure with being confined to the house for yet another day, he emptied most of his toy boxes. The room was a complete disaster area, not even possible to sit anywhere in the room. He was also eating/asking for food all day. In the last week, he lost almost a whole kilogram (a little over 2 pounds). Luckily, he can go to daycare tomorrow or I might have to string him up by his toes. He was feeling so much better today that he fought off and refused to take a nap. The result is he crashed by about 8:30 while Tak was reading stories to him. I think Tak was actually reading in his sleep...


Now, Hana has the same thing Gaku had. But she's not nearly so bad as he was. She only had a fever one day and her symptoms are much milder. The doctor said she will be safe (not contagious) by Sunday. Yay!


My parents arrive tomorrow (Friday). So I was a bit worried about the kids being sick, since my mom can't be exposed to any kind of illness or it could be trouble for her. (For those of you who are reading this and don't know, my mom has a type of cancer called myeloma. It's in early stages, so isn't curtailing her lifestyle too much right now. The doctors are hoping for a cure by the time it gets serious in a few years time. But the big thing is that her body cannot create antibodies to fight stuff off.) So, I was very glad to have the doctor tell me that Gaku is safe now and Hana will be by Sunday. My parents are staying for almost 2 weeks. It should be lots of fun!!

Sunday, June 8, 2008

Sick Kid and Firsts


Gaku has not been having a fun few days! I was called on Thursday to pick him up at daycare. He had a fever of 38.8 (101.8), and was pretty lethargic. I took him to the doctor and he got some medicine. Friday, he spent a lot of the day watching tv, didn't eat much, but didn't seem too bad. Saturday, he was a bit more tired and down. But the medicine he got that is supposed to help his cold is a bit bitter tasting, and he didn't want to take it. I tried to make him drink it by using the syringe-type doser. I got it in his mouth, but he wouldn't swallow and instead we ended up wearing most of it. Saturday night his fever went up to 39.5 (103.1) so we gave him some fever medicine. He hadn't eaten much for a few days and hadn't pooped either. Saturday evening and night he was complaining his stomach hurt. Sunday morning at about 6:30, he was pretty hot feeling, breathing kind of funny and complaining his stomach hurt, so we took him to emergency. The biggest problem was the poor kid was constipated, so he got an enema prescribed. On the way home, he saw a McDonald's and said he wanted "potatoes" (meaning french fries). I didn't think it was the best idea, but if he really wanted it, well okay. So we had McDonald's breakfast. He didn't eat tons, but more than he'd eaten at one time for a couple of days. We got home and gave him the enema (far easier than getting him to swallow his cold medicine!). About 10 minutes later he seemed a lot better. But the McDonald's would come back to haunt us. About an hour and a half after his enema, he threw up all over the place! I wasn't home for that; Tak got to clean that up. Poor Gaku. I think it's the first time he's ever really thrown up. He wasn't feeling so well after that. He seemed a bit better this evening, though - ate a bit. But then was saying his stomach hurt again. But he didn't throw up again, so that's a good thing. He's definitely home again tomorrow, and probably Tuesday as well. The fun of sick kids!!


This evening, I took Hana down to the bath. I love giving her a bath. She is so good. She NEVER cries in the bath AT ALL. She is always smiling and happy in the bath. She starts smiling and making excited movements when being undressed for the bath. After the bath, we came upstairs. I laid her on the futon and went in the kitchen to get some tea. When I came back, she had rolled over on to her stomach! Her first time rolling over and no one even saw it. So then I took some video, but she didn't oblige with a repeat. As soon as I turned off the camera, she did it again for me. The cool thing is she went from back to stomach, and then stomach to back, so she can do both. But I think she can only turn in one direction so far, which means if she'd tried to roll over one more time, she would have been stuck in a really funny position up against the one shelf. A few days ago I started feeding her some rice porridge - almost the consistency of a thick soup. She really likes it!! She'll suck the spoon and move her head towards the spoon for more. I was a bit concerned about how she would take to food, since she has so adamantly refused to touch formula on the few occasions it's been given to her. (It's not a bottle issue because she'll drink expressed breast milk from a bottle. It's the taste; she makes a face like she's being poisoned - about like Gaku with his medicine.) It's fun to start feeding her a bit. I think (hope) she's going to be a good eater.

Kids are so much fun. All of their ups and downs are such experiences.

Wednesday, June 4, 2008

Business as Usual

A few weeks in Izumo sure did get me out of the habit of updating my blog. I haven't opened it since we got back and that was a few weeks ago now.

Here's a picture of my workspace. The window faces west so there's some really nice sunshine in the afternoon. The baby bed used to be here. I used the baby bed with Gaku. Before Hana was born I cleaned it all up again and got it ready for her, but didn't use it once. It just became a storage area. I figured I could make better use of the space as a work space.

Hana and I spend most of our day in this room. While I'm working, she's either sleeping or playing by herself. She'll play pretty contentedly on her own if I just smile at her every so often, and take a few longer breaks to play with her a bit more. She is the best, easiest baby!

I do notice though, that I don't have a problem letting her cry just a bit if I'm in the middle of something. With Gaku, I would stop and drop whatever I was doing instantly to calm him. With Hana, I figure about 5 minutes or so of crying while I finish (outlining the fonts / proofing the unit I'm working on / hanging up laundry) isn't going to hurt her.

Next week, Mom and Dad are going to come and stay for almost 2 weeks. The last time they came when Gaku was a baby we went all over Tokyo. They told me they don't want to go out and see stuff this time. They'd rather have more quiet, relaxing time playing with their grandkids. I figure Gaku will still go to daycare most of the time. He gets bored if he has too many days at home. But a few days we can go to a park or a jidokan (baby/kids play center). I'll keep working most days. It should be lots of fun!

Thursday, May 1, 2008

Fun in Izumo

We've been having fun in Izumo, but my internet access is a bit difficult. There's no internet access at Tak's house, so I have to come to his sister's house to hook up. Today we took a taxi and I've been working here all day.

I came to Izumo last week on Tuesday with Gaku and Hana. Everyone here in Izumo says that no one in Izumo would take 2 small kids and fly by themselves. But basically, we sent all of our clothes and stuff the day before. So all I had was basically what we would take to go out for the day (plus my computer). Everything was fine until we got off the plane in Izumo. When we were unfolding the buggy, I didn't realize that Gaku's thumb was right in the hinge. He cried and cried. About 3 staff were trying to help, bringing medicine and bandaids, but Gaku just laid on the ground crying and trying to hit anyone who came near him. They had to call ahead to the bus to Izumo to tell it to wait for us. After about 10-15 minutes, he finally settled down and would sit in the buggy. Then 2 staff escorted us to the bus, carrying my bags. On the bus, Gaku fell asleep. When we go to Izumo station I couldn't wake him up to get off the bus. The driver ended up carrying him off for me! Luckily, Masa-jiji was waiting there for us.

Since we arrived, everyone is pretty busy working. Since I don't have an international license at this time, we've been a bit more house-bound than usual. But on days off, we've gone to some fun places: an aquarium called Gobius, an animation village for Gegege no Kitarou, and a couple of parks. May 4, 5 and 6 are days that everyone has off. They will be pretty fun.

Gaku has been acting up a bit. I think he's a bit stressed at being with me all day and missing day care. Also, he's been getting too many sweets and not enough naps. I'm sure he's missing his daddy too! It'll be good when Tak gets here.

Hana has also been a bit fussy. In the evenings, Gaku and Ruka are playing together and Gaku gets really loud and crazy. Also, since Gaku is with us all the time and Tak isn't here to play with him, my time with Hana is different than it usually is. Usually, I have a bit more time to play just with her. On Monday evening she got a fever that was pretty high. The next morning it was gone. Then yesterday, she started getting lots of little bumps. But she didn't have a fever and her mood was good. Now today she's really fussy and has a fever again. As soon as Yuu gets home, I'll take her to a doctor... Poor thing.